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After a week of working hard and dealing with the stress of modern life, there’s nothing like a good roleplay with your partner to unwind. What better scenario than the sexy adventures of James Bond? Dress up like the charming spy or the gorgeous nurse who needs to give him some sensual attention and have theatrical fun!

Your role:

  • You are the sexy nurse who has to save James Bond from dying. Take him under your wing and give him first aid that he’ll never forget.

Preparation steps:

  • Put on a sexy nurse outfit - let your imagination run wild with this. You can wear as little or as much as you want.
  • Make sure you have all the necessary tools such as a fake syringe and some bandages close at hand.
  • Have a bed ready that is going to be very comfortable with clean linen and soft pillows.
  • Give 007 special treatment and make him feel a lot better than he did when he landed in your care.

Some tips:

  • Watch a few doctor shows such as Grey’s Anatomy or House to familiarise yourself with fancy medical terms.
  • Be stern and professional at first. Gradually, as you take in the sexiness of the secret agent, you can start to become more sexual in your behavior.
  • Take his temperature and be sure to note that he’s really hot. Then measure his pulse and blood pressure and inform him that his heart is racing. (It will be if you’re touching him in all the right ways!)
  • Offer to help him cool down by taking off his clothes and giving him a martini just the way he likes it.
  • Accidentally touch certain areas of his body to work him up and loosen the buttons on your clothes if there are any.

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Your role:

  • You are an injured, and possibly dying, spy known as James Bond. Despite your injury, you know a beautiful woman when you see one and your nurse is as hot as they come. You can’t resist wanting to make her yours.

Preparation steps:

  • Find a classic suit that will make you look debonair but can be somewhat destroyed during sexy time. (Ripping your suit off is something that might just happen!)
  • Wear a fancy watch that looks like it could be a gadget used by Bond.
  • Smear some fake blood or other substance that looks like blood (ketchup or cherry syrup) on your shirt and your face. You have to look like you’re injured and this also allows your nurse to wipe you clean and have an excuse to touch you.
  • As the nurse takes care of you, compliment her and sweep her off her feet with your Bond charm.
  • Don’t be scared to take control of the situation - you’re a superspy, after all!

Some tips:

  • Watch a few James Bond movies to get the character right and have the proper spy attitude.
  • Be gentle, suave and charming at all times. Bond is known for appreciating women even when’ he’s in mortal danger.
  • Remember that 007 always drinks a medium-dry martini with a lemon peel. Shaken, not stirred.

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